
Every year from Christmas to Epiphany we go on a trip. Sometimes we do actually leave Vermont, but that is not the kind of trip I’m talking about. Through every one of the “twelve days of Christmas” or the “holy nights” we carry a meditation with us through time. We go backward and forward, busting through the 4th dimension and using like it was meant to. We roll around with our toddler years, smile at our adolescence, marvel at our super twenties and appreciate the hard work of our thirties. And now we get to pick through our forties like sociologists exploring a new culture or detectives marking the scene of the crime.
The goal is to suspend judgment and just see it. See the magnificent and shameful without praise or cursing. To be like a stone – unmoved either way – just watching it pass.
This brings great clarity and peace (when I can do it – it can be rather tricky to accept and see objectively several choice moments in my life).
And then we project.
We see the future.
And this year, the future is, in a word, play. We are going to know, feel, experience and relish play like never before.

Now we should be clear about what “play” is. This does not mean we aren’t going to work or be responsible or attend to matters of consequence. Play is not the opposite of work. Play is what you do when you engage in a game. That is when you play. You play games.

So in seeing our future for 2012, the real shift is to see our life as a series of games to play. We are going to play the “make the website more efficient” game right along side the “run through the snow in bare feet” game.
We are going to play “Pay your taxes” and then play “Put bacon in the pumpkin pie”

There are so many games to play. I enjoy the “make snow angel” game. My intention is to make the “Pay for the Volvo’s new starter” game more fun.
So welcome to the game called “2012”. Will you come out and play?

January 9, 2012 at 10:17 am |
There is nothing better about technology than the fact that it allows me to be friends with people I might have otherwise never met. And to play with them!
I love this and I will play too!
Today, I will play, “scrape out the cracked caulking in the half-bathroom”.
On a more serious note, as I watch my kids grow and know that the day will come all too soon when they will leave me and have their own lives, I think there is no better way to live in the moment with them, but to engage in play. And no better example to set in living a good life.
Thank you for the inspiration, always!
January 9, 2012 at 10:53 am |
Ooooh – the scrape out the cracked caulking game is great with coffee and a little honey. Played it many times – Enjoy!
January 9, 2012 at 10:45 am |
Hoe can I subscribe to your blog by e-mail? Susan
January 9, 2012 at 10:54 am |
Hi Susan – no subscription process for the blog at the moment but we will have RSS sometime soon. Thanks for inquiring.
January 9, 2012 at 12:10 pm |
Oh how lovely! I will be joining along! We are getting ready to purchase our first home — one of those things that really is a fun, glorious thing, but, admittedly, I have allowed to become something that feels like a stressful burden. I’m brining back the play for the rest of the process! Thank you for sharing!